Is it just me?

[issenllo]

I do not appreciate being referred to as "Girls" (as in a couple of recent email saluations to me and another group member), even by people of my own sex. Men who do it to me = deathglare and scorn and quick rebuttal.

But it feels like I'm being uptight over nothing. "Girls", what. Surely there's nothing horrible about that. Despite the fact that I am not a 'girl'. Either call me by name or not at all (or "hi fellow group mates!" which is at least factual.)

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[issenllo]

Yeah. But I feel it's harder to ask another 'girl' to stop. It's annoying. I like being a woman, not a girl.

[vi]

Yes, it's harder to ask other women to stop - sorry, I had assumed male colleagues or friends! I dunno what to do in social situations, haha. My workplace is predominantly women, and I like how they will start emails with something like "hi all/everyone/team".