Is it just me?

[issenllo]

I do not appreciate being referred to as "Girls" (as in a couple of recent email saluations to me and another group member), even by people of my own sex. Men who do it to me = deathglare and scorn and quick rebuttal.

But it feels like I'm being uptight over nothing. "Girls", what. Surely there's nothing horrible about that. Despite the fact that I am not a 'girl'. Either call me by name or not at all (or "hi fellow group mates!" which is at least factual.)

Comments

[vi]

I don't like being referred to as a "girl" either! Especially in professional situations; I find it condescending. If I'm in the mood I'll make a point of asking how old these "girls" are when men refer to "this girl I work with" or "this chick from work". They do this, even if the woman is 50 and/or outranks them. Or I'll ask if they refer to their male colleagues as boys - never.

[qem_chibati]

I agree - it feels really juvenile and belittling.

I find ladies more tolerable a term, but would much prefer group mates like you when that's the factual term. (Hey all, also works for me)